You don’t answer people's text messages or calls as much as you want to. You are invited to a party and still refuse to go. You don’t want to be a part of an arrangement such as birthday parties or weddings.
You stop trusting people not because you have become “smarter”. No, it’s because you have been hurt in the past and refuse to feel the same pain again and again.
The truth is, this has often become romanticized advice, but it’s not a healthy habit to be completely alone for the rest of your life.
If you push people away, you’ll be lonely. You push people away because of the trauma, break up, and mental health issues. You are afraid of being rejected again, so it’s better to stay away from people.
If you open your mind to new people, you will find your tribe.
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