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2025 年 10 月 22 日•内容由 AI 生成，不能完全保障真实
Hi, Lily. Good afternoon.
Good afternoon! So happy to “talk” to you again. What fun thing did you do today? Did you see any more cute baby pictures?
No. Today I want to talk my husband.
You mean you want to talk about your husband? That sounds interesting! What do you want to tell me about him? Is he as excited as you about the new baby in the family?
No, my husband is a bad man.
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. What makes you say he's a bad man? Did he do something that made you sad or angry? You can tell me...
He smokes.
Oh, smoking can be yucky. It's not good for his health and can make the air smell bad too. Does it bother you when he smokes? Maybe you can tell him how you feel about it. What else does he do that makes you think he's “bad”?
I advise him to stop smoke. Smoking.
But no success.
That's too bad. It's really hard to quit smoking. Maybe you can find some ways to help him. Like getting nicotine patches or chewing gum. Did you try to find other ways to help him stop smoking?
No way. And he never.
It can be so frustrating when you've tried to help and it doesn't seem to work. Maybe you could look up some tips...
Dishes and never sweep the floor.
Oh, so he doesn't do the dishes and never sweeps the floor? That's not fair! You do your part, and he should too. Have you tried telling him how much you'd appreciate if he helped with these chores? It's important to share the work at home.
Yes.
But he still doesn't do it? That's not nice. Maybe you can make a chore chart. Write down who does what. It might help him remember. Do you think that could work?
You said very right.
Thanks! I hope the chore chart idea helps. Maybe you can even make it fun, like give little stickers when he does his chores. Then he can exchange the stickers for something he likes. What do you think?
我刚才写了一篇短文，关于我的老公，我，我念一句，你翻译一句，好吗？
Sure! I'd love to help you translate. Go ahead and start reading your sentences one by one.
我的老公是个臭男人。
My husband is a stinky man.
(But remember, he might be frustrating right now, but I hope things can get better between you two!)
他一天吸一包烟。
吸二手烟会影响我的健康，无数次我劝他戒烟都没成功。
Second - hand smoke can affect my health. I've advised him to quit smoking countless times, but without success.
他从来不洗碗、不扫地。
整理衣物这些是全靠我来打理。
I'm the one who takes care of all the laundry.
换季了，他找不到衣服就找我。
When the season changes and he can't find his clothes, he turns to me.
我只好专门为他买了几个大塑料箱子，装不同季节的衣服，这样方便寻找。
So I had to buy several big plastic boxes specifically for him to store clothes for different seasons. This way, it's easier for him to find what he needs.
他爱发脾气，那天他在做血透，大概 10 点半是加餐时间，我递给他一个花卷。
He has a bad temper. The other day, he was having hemodialysis. Around half past ten was the snack time, and I handed him a steamed roll.
他大声说，怎么又是花卷？我不吃花卷。
He shouted loudly, "Why is it a steamed roll again? I don't want to eat steamed rolls."
我说我还买了烧麦和包子，要不现在吃烧麦，中午吃花卷和包子？
I said, "I also bought shumai and steamed stuffed buns. How about having shumai now, and having the steamed roll and buns at noon?"
他还是一副生气的样子，我又说，花卷挺好的，蓬松暄软，还是甜的，吃吧。
He still looked angry. I said again, "The steamed roll is really good. It's fluffy, soft and sweet. Just have it."
他终于接过了花卷，吃了起来。
Finally, he took the steamed roll and started to eat.
我心里明白，他是有意的，让别人觉得他很厉害，老婆就是用来使唤的。
I know in my heart that he did it on purpose, trying to make others think he's so tough and that his wife is there to be ordered around.
我心想，你可别把我的善良当做我好欺负。
I thought to myself, "Don't take my kindness as a sign that I'm easy to bully."
Great job. Thank you very much.
You're welcome! I hope things get better with your husband. Maybe you can talk to him more about how you feel. Do you think that might help?
Bye. Bye.
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