I don’t know, I don’t know how long can you know that is something bigger for you and yet you ignore that.
Don’t we do that? we tell ourselves what? I am gonna take on a bigger picture in myself, I really will recess my career, relationship, health.
When? Later! Right?
We always do this I am, I just can’t because I am busy right now. And we get so wrapped up in the moment, and make this promise to ourselves later.
I pushed away school to later, I pushed away take stepping into my life in the biggest sense, I push away later. And when you push that away, you will push away the most important thing.
Cause I sat on my friend’s coaches and I realized they were complaining, and complaining and complaining, and I sat down and I said to myself. You know what, I just stood up and look at my friends and say, “guess what guys, I don’t know where I’m sleeping tonight, one of your houses maybe, maybe outside I don’t know, I’m gonna eat, I don’t have..., I don’t have..., I don’t have....”
But you know what I do have:two hands and two feet. I had a brain in my head and air in my lungs, and what else do I really need?
Look what else do you really need to begin a day to lead the life you know what you are meant to lead? You know in you heart what it is. And what more do you want to change before you step into that? I stood up and I looked at them. And the next feeling which has been the biggest resources in my life since “gratitude”.
You can either pick one thing in life, resentment or gratitude, get on the side, I promise you. I looked at that moment and realized I may not have my mother ever again, but I have these resources , I had myself and I could go forward.
I remember that the feeling inside of me, and a need to change my life, and that voice at the back of my head it took on the special question, and the question is “what if... ... ”?
You know that the voice in the back of your head and said “what if... ”? “what if i tried that much harder?” “what if i push one more time ?” it’s a part of you that dreams.
A dis-empowered conversation will do you a couple of things that will took for blame, and it’s concerned with past. It will go, “What happened before? Why didn’t work out?” It will counts what is not there.
An empower conversation is unconcerned with blame. It’s simply says “what’s next?” and it steps forward with a willingness to be responsible for what happens next. That is the difference between empowered and dis-empowered conversation. And I stood at that doorway and I knew nothing in my history took away from the fact that I still had a choice.
Life is a miracle. You don’t have to be stuck in a situation that is holding you back, you have to identify what that is, because I promise you, there is a way to break pasted.
I want you to identify that voice inside of yourself and begin to trust it. And ask yourself what is that has been in my way and how do I unblock that. Dig deep inside.
Life dose not wait for anyone, and your life isn’t later. your life is right now.
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