马尔克斯
海明威的小说主旨，从来是“胜利之无用”。一种奇妙的矛盾:胜利无用，赢家一无所得，但他依然要去克服，于是形成了悲哀的空虚。
Writing, at best, is a lonely life.
You could hardly find a world of humor in a Hemingway book, because he is so tense and solemn and dedicate to what is true and good. (Orson Welles)
Everyone need someone to talk with him openly. Although a person can be very heroic, he also could be very lonely.
当人走向高峰绝顶时，其实就是一种精神上的孤独和荒凉。
《A Moveable Feast》流动的盛宴
You expected to be sad in the fall. Part of you died each year when the leaves fell from the trees and their branches were bare against the wind and the cold, wintry light. But you knew there would always be the spring, as you knew the river would flow again after it was frozen. When the cold rain kept on and killed the spring, it was as though a young person had died for no reason.
活着，就要勇敢的活下去，活的精彩，死则与其等到希望破灭，抱着病残的身躯痛苦呻吟死去，不如血气方刚，怀有雄心壮志，高高兴兴地在烈火中焚化。
怀揣英雄情结是可敬的，但可怕的是人容易被这种情绪驾得太高，导致人无法接受现实中的自己。
有时候活得最积极的人反而是最消极的，最乐观的反而是最悲观的。背景越黑暗，亮光越耀眼; 越能感受现实残酷，越珍惜细微点滴的美好。这就是消极中的积极，悲观中的乐观。
热爱生命，愿意奋斗，感动于每一个善意善念，感激一切美好的人与事与物，但这改变不了他们对生命本质的看法。甚至，是因为对生命本质持有悲观看法，才会努力地，积极地活着。
儒家文化
儒家思想歌颂的是群体文化，恪守中庸之道
五伦:君臣，父子，兄弟，夫妇，朋友(忠，孝，悌，忍，善)
阐述一个生命与周边生命的相对关系
避谈死亡，避谈孤独
死亡是什么?
儒家回答“未知生，焉知死?”
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