小事中观大道理(哲理篇)

一个事物的性质是由多方面因素影响的

有一次朋友来家里玩，帮忙给做饭时，我们就先放哪样菜起了分歧，她说芹菜好熟，可以和土豆丝一起淘洗了炒，我对她讲芹菜难熟，还是先放芹菜，炒会儿再放土豆丝吧。争辩了一小会儿，我突然发现她切好的芹菜是那种细丝状的，而我们家一般图方便直接切成一大块儿大块儿那样的，我的印象的，芹菜总是很难炒熟的。

→一个争辩没有绝对的谁对谁错，要善于分析分歧背后的原因，而不是一定要争个你高我低，方为罢休。

→从多个方面看到一个问题，不要我以为的就是“我以为的”。

  The nature of a thing is influenced by many factors

Once a friend came my home to play with me.when she was helping me cooking ,we had a disagreement. she said celery  is easily to be cooked well , and you can let it with potatoes washed together. I told her that celery is hard to cook, we should cook the celery earlier,and after a while ,add potatoes.Then l suddenly found that the way she cut the salary is the kind of fine wire.But our family is generally directly to cut it into every large pieces，so for me celery is always very cut to fry.

→An argument is not absolutely to be ended with that Who is right and who is wrong,we need to analyze the raises behind the difference.

→ see a problem from many aspects , do not regard what  I  know as "what the reality is ".