今天的会议内容充实、氛围积极，整体质量颇高，现将流程与亮点整理如下：
一、开场与自我介绍
简短开场后，三位来宾依次进行自我介绍，围绕“我是谁、来自哪里、兴趣爱好及工作”展开，分别是浮生、小鱼和查理。
二、即兴辩论与Table Topic环节
设置三个主题，形式丰富且语言切换灵活（首个主题用英文，第二个用中文，第三个用英文），引发多角度探讨：
1. 主题一：幽默（英文辩论）
2. 主题二：钱是否应该放在一起（中文辩论）
3. 主题三：吵架时应先冷静还是先把道理说清楚（英文辩论）
大家通过辩论展现了多元视角，活动形式新颖，为首次尝试此类模式的会议增色不少。环节结束后，当场进行了总结与复盘。
三、嘉宾分享
由小鱼儿带来保险与保健相关分享，结合国家政策解读。因我此前希望了解保险知识，特邀请他针对“如何合理购买大病医疗或百万健康险”进行讲解，内容实用且清晰。
四、备稿演讲
1. 我的演讲：为何担任俱乐部Mentor
分享了担任常州和太仓俱乐部Mentor的经历：
初期两俱乐部会员均不足13人，先与主席沟通目标与想法，再制定具体行动方案（如会议流程优化、注重MOT、嘉宾邀请策略、会员及来宾奖励机制等）；
定期（每月或每两月）回顾进展，多次出差参与常州俱乐部会议（最多一月4次），按需承担主持人、总评（英文总评对我而言是不小挑战，但仍积极尝试）、时间官等角色；
最终帮助两俱乐部年底均达成“S级杰出俱乐部”，会员数超20人，俱乐部主席还录制视频致谢。
感悟：做Mentor如同做项目，需先立目标再推进，过程中既锻炼了规划能力，也在助人中实现了自我成长。
2. 孙鹏的演讲：恢复出厂设置
原计划英文演讲，后改用中文，结合自身经历分享：
7月至今工作量激增3倍，身心俱疲，由此联想到“手机因垃圾过多需恢复出厂设置”，类比自身也需要“重置”；
以舒马赫的故事为例：F1赛车比赛中临近终点意外失利后，他暂离赛场开出租车，在慢节奏中重拾对赛车的热爱与坚持，映射自己虽工作繁忙，但仍愿专注做好每件事，追求极致；
传递核心：“恢复出厂设置”后，将以饱满状态迎接挑战，坚信能完成想做的事。
（注：孙鹏因需回复老板信息，开场的主席介绍由小马哥用英文代劳。）
五、其他亮点
• 新来宾专程从平湖开车1小时（带儿子同行）到场，分享了其从事的“优贝儿童车”相关业务。
• 颁奖环节：浮生、小鱼、瑞安娜均获表彰，大家表现亮眼。
整场会议虽人数不多，但参与积极性高，各环节衔接顺畅，成效显著。
今天最让我感动的，是查理的一番反馈。他说，嘉兴不像上海、杭州那样繁华，人口也没那么密集，但在这里，有这么多人坚持组织头马会议，为英语爱好者搭建起学习的平台，这让他觉得大家特别了不起。他很感谢俱乐部伙伴们打造了这样好的平台，也很感恩能在这个平台与大家相遇，十分珍惜这份情谊。他还希望以后能多来参加会议。
Though only 7 people attended today’s meeting, it was content-rich, energetic, and of high quality overall. Here’s a structured summary of its processes and highlights:
1. Opening and Self-Introductions
After a brief opening, three guests introduced themselves one by one, covering "who they are, where they’re from, their hobbies, and their jobs"—namely Fusheng, Xiaoyu, and Charlie.
2. Impromptu Debate and Table Topic Session
Three topics were set, with flexible language switches (the first in English, the second in Chinese, the third in English), sparking multi-perspective discussions:
1. Topic 1: Humor (debated in English)
2. Topic 2: Whether money should be pooled together (debated in Chinese)
3. Topic 3: Whether to calm down first or clarify the道理 [truth/reason] first when arguing (debated in English)
Participants presented diverse viewpoints through debates. This innovative format, a first for such a meeting, added much value. A summary and review were conducted immediately after the session.
3. Guest Sharing
Xiaoyu gave a talk on insurance and healthcare, incorporating interpretations of national policies. Since I wanted to learn about insurance, I specifically invited him to explain "how to reasonably purchase critical illness medical insurance or million-dollar health insurance," and the content was practical and clear.
4. Prepared Speeches
1. My Speech: Why I Serve as a Club Mentor
I shared my experience as a mentor for clubs in Changzhou and Taicang:
Initially, both clubs had fewer than 13 members. I first communicated with their presidents about goals and ideas, then formulated specific action plans (e.g., optimizing meeting processes, focusing on MOT, strategies for inviting guests, reward mechanisms for members and guests, etc.);
I reviewed progress regularly (monthly or bi-monthly) and traveled frequently to attend Changzhou club meetings (up to 4 times a month), taking on roles like host, general evaluator (English evaluation was quite a challenge for me, but I actively tried), and timekeeper as needed;
Eventually, I helped both clubs achieve "S-level Distinguished Club" by the end of the year, with membership exceeding 20. The club presidents even recorded thank-you videos.
Insight: Being a mentor is like managing a project—you need to set goals first and then follow through. It hones planning skills, and while helping others, you also grow yourself.
2. Sun Peng’s Speech: Factory Reset
Originally planned to be in English, it was delivered in Chinese, sharing his personal experience:
Since July, his workload has tripled, leaving him physically and mentally exhausted. This made him think of how "phones need a factory reset when cluttered with junk," drawing an analogy to his own need for a "reset";
He used Michael Schumacher’s story as an example: After a near-victory at the finish line in an F1 race ended in defeat, Schumacher temporarily left racing to drive a taxi. In the slower pace, he rediscovered his love and persistence for racing—mirroring his own situation: despite busy work, he is determined to focus on doing things well and striving for excellence;
Core message: After a "factory reset," he will face challenges with full energy, confident in his ability to accomplish what he sets out to do.
(Note: Since Sun Peng needed to reply to his boss’s messages, I delivered the president’s opening introduction in English on his behalf.)
5. Other Highlights
• A new guest drove an hour from Pinghu (with his son) to attend and shared his work related to "Ubest children’s bikes."
• Awards session: Fusheng, Xiaoyu, and Riana were recognized, all performing excellently.
Despite the small number of participants, the meeting saw high engagement, smooth transitions between sessions, and notable results.
What moved me most today was Charlie's feedback. He said that unlike Shanghai and Hangzhou, Jiaxing is not as bustling and doesn't have such a large population. However, there are so many people here who keep organizing Toastmasters meetings, building a platform for English lovers to learn, which he thinks makes everyone truly remarkable. He expressed his gratitude to the club members for creating such a great platform, and also cherished the opportunity to meet everyone here, valuing this friendship deeply. He also hoped to attend more meetings in the future.
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