Dear fellow toaster masters. How many times your resume was rejected? What's the main reason? Several months ago. After paying my tmc fees. I have no money to buy something on November 11. my poor pockets. And So i made a big decision. Change the job. Then i refreshed resume. Borrowed technical books. One day i Received an interview call. The lady said. Do you want to change your job? I said. Yes. Can you tell me your excepted salary? So open. I like. You must know the standards. So you made. When i heart the salary i wes suprised. Then pretend so calm to answer any questions. In the end. He Said: last but not least. When will you want a baby? So straight. I don't like now. Maybe this year. Then we close this interview conversation as soon as possible. after that. All the interviews were interrupted by the same question.
I was angry. Depressed for a long time. Then I found It was so common in any recruitment information. We were refused Again and again. The Human Resources said. We need have a famous university education background. 985 211 postgraduate or doctors. They said. You never met female engineers. All right? So sorry.they also said we dont need male nurse. So sorry. Too fat. So ugly of your resume. We need long leg.all the bias keep some excellent person out the door. Then they are depressed and not confident even they begin to doubt their abilities.ba afraid of trying one more time. Did you have the same feelings before?
I did some research to persuade myself. Then I found It's no need to have these negative feelings. Be refused by Discrimination is a common thing. If we embrace discrimination. We'll live better. i will share with you three books.
First is economics. Depends on the common theory of economics. All the discrimination in recruitment is just unbalance between requirements and supplements. It means 300 thousands. graduates Just 30 jobs vacancies. Its like if you show love to the goddess but be refused. It's so common. Goddess just only one. However your competitors are too more.
Second is history. Elite university found great job, and non-elite university was refused.those poor guys didn't get great better career path, really? Let's look at this picture. Ten years ago, most graduates from 985 211 got the offer of ericson a famous international mobile phone enterprise. It's champagne in the international position. Like apple today. But the other graduates not in 985.211 entered alibaba which main business is selling shoots. Times went on. Alobaba is an ideal company. Now all the 985 211 joined BAT, you are refused. It doesn't mean you are loser. You also have the chance to live better. I remember one sentences. Nothing is so bad but might be a blessing. it's wisdom. So Embrace discrimination is what we can do best.
Third is psychology. What if you are Human Resources. What if you need select 30 best from 300 thousands graduates quickly? Maybe you have the same solution. In order to choose the best. So if you are refused. Just means you are not best. No discrimination. It's just a rule. Have you ever doubt your abilities when you are refused? It's not excellent is true. But we should comfort ourselves like a great friend. Not too harsh and strict.Then we became confident to embrace discrimination. We will be rational to deal anything. Trust ourselves. yes we can. If you Failed.just try one more time. Like me never get best prepared speaker in our club. But I insist on trying. Maybe in the future I will will be the best. It doesn't matter. Trying one more time can make me more brave. growth needs try one more time. Maybe you will reach your goal. Like yuminhong. 25 times worst loving experience. 3 times failures in college entrance examinations. But embrace discrimination made him entering peak university. And be the CEO of Xindongfang. We can say. Dream it. And get it. Un
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