面对同样的困难,别人举重若轻,你却只想逃避?
明明起点差不多,但几年下来,差距却越来越大?
很多时候,是你的想法影响了你的成长。
总说“不可能”“没办法”,遇事总视自己为受害者,
怕犯错所以不敢尝试...
限制你能力潜力的9个习惯
对照,改变
01
抱怨
自己永远是受害者,永远是别人的原因,
整天怨天尤人,会失去解决问题的能力。
I will always be a victim,
and always be the cause of others.
All the blame on others,
will lose the ability to solve problems.
02
自以为是
谁的意见都听不进去,总是觉得自己是对的,
慢慢的谁都不再给他提意见,就会很难听到好的建议。
No one can hear anything, and always think he's right.
It will be hard to hear good advice
when no one is going to give advice to him.
03
怕犯错
怕犯错的人不敢去做更多的事,
出了错第一时间先给自己找理由找借口
失去了很多次尝试的机会,没有结果意识
经常为了对和错争论的面面红耳赤
People who are afraid of making mistakes are afraid to do more.
It's the first time to find excuses for yourself.
Lost a lot of attempts, no sense of result
Often to the right and wrong debate face blush
04
推卸责任
没看见、不是我的错、因为...所以...这些词
会让一个人心安理得的让这件事情和自己没关系
损失了很多次成长的机会
I don't see, it's not my fault, because... So...
These wordsIt will make a person feel at ease
and let it do nothing to yourself
Lost many opportunities for growth
05
懒惰
不想干,也不愿意去想,承受不了压力
只想不劳而获,只做美梦,不去行动,梦是不会实现的
Do not want to do, do not want to think,
can not bear pressureOnly want to gain no work,
only dream, not to act, the dream will not be realized.
06
不自信
相信自己,有的时候自信可以带来强大的力量。
况且,你都不相信自己,怎么能指望别人相信你。
Believe in yourself, and sometimes
confidence can bring strong power.
Besides, you do not believe in yourself,
and you can count on others to believe in you.
07
否定性思想
不可能、没办法、怎么会、没想过、不知道...
这些词汇会让你大脑停止思考
不再为结果找答案。没方法等于没能力。
Impossible, no way, how, never thought, don't know...
These words make your brain stop thinking
No more answers for the result. No way is no ability.
08
职责局限
这个不归我管、那个不归我管......
别忘了,机会永远留给有准备的人
This does not belong to me, that does not belong to me...
Don't forget, the opportunity is always left to the ready man
09
金钱
给多少钱干多少活,钱给的少就不去做,
久而久之自己丧失了赚钱的能力。
格局小的精明,只会毁掉你。
Give a lot of money to do a lot of work, money is not to do,
For a long time, I lost the ability to make money.
A small pattern of shrewdness will only destroy you.
——————— 我是麦小萌 ———————
一个萌萌哒的北方
女汉子
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