Negative people with the mindset of poverty always get a sense of achievement by keeping their eyes to judge and look down others, as they need to fill a sense of achievement and self-esteem.
Whereas, wise people with a growth mindset always put the vision to themselves. They make most of the efforts to reflect themselves, to try every means to improve and to learn.
Negative people always try to make things happened by untrusting, defending, criticizing, and ordering others which in reality, would only result in conflicts.
Whereas, sophisticated people always think about cooperating with others by the ability to see the advantages of individuals and by trusting, encouraging, prizing others, as well as provide value to others. In turn, this leads to positive reactions from others and both sides are happy and winning, which is called the Pygmalion effect.
The phenomenon whereby higher expectations lead to higher performance.
A sculptor who fell in love with the statue he had carved and talked nice to the statue every day until it was touched and become alive to a real lady.
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