《我最好朋友的婚礼》

文/赵小凡

MY Best Friend's Wedding

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《我最好朋友的婚礼》

This is a usual story about friendship and relationship...Easy to understand，two people ，one girl one boy，were too close just like brother and sister ...But the boy wanted to cross the line of frienship until the girl refused...Then，one day the boy prepares his own wedding，and exactly at that moment，the girl knows something about love ，wanting him back so desperately…Only left to see her best friend marrying some other girl...

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My Best Friend's Wedding

The story is just like the above one.If i have to name some differences，i bet that's the girl's behaviours about chasing love back…The westerners are used to be more active about love stuff…saying it out loudly and chasing hardly…leaving no regret

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Gone With the Wind

It's hard to say whether the girl's right or not cause love is complocated enough to make you blind and having no idea what you are fucking doing…So i'm not judging the 2 movies and i will not，nither. But i do fancy the end ，i believe that's a happy one which is good for each guy concluded in this love game…

I do fell the hardships，like loving by someone unconditionally and suddenly，he isn't at your side anymore…when i was a little girl，loved by all my dear brothers，not wanting to grow up until they all get married and time forced me to be a grown-up. I was hopelessly sad，though，but then i figured it out…There's boundary there，there's a line，although you never want to admit that ...when time's right，you need to let it go…

It reminded me of my mum，before i went to college，she kept herself  close to me ，giving me advice and you know，encouragement  and guidance thing…But now，she gives freedom to live my own life without them，for them，just seeing and appreciating…

It's hard，but we all know that's ok and usual...maybe what we called growing up which is a process，can be short，can be long…

Someone may think that we need to cherish whatever beautiful appeared in our life for missing is forever，never coming back…But i do bet what's passing you is just “something”not supposed to be in your life...And i love losing ，that ，makes me know better about myself and the truth of life.

And may you pleause let bygones be bygones，you are you，still you，the potential you.