Good afternoon, everyone, welcome to my English speech, first I wanna introduce myself to everyone, my name its arin, and I from the Engineering Department, Software Engineering;
Today I wanna do a speech about the topic we set here, how we deal the various stress of college life, and what should we do while we encounter the difficulty of life, would the give up be the right choice?
//什么是压力
Let's start from the stress;
I THINK U can't believe that I dropped while I was at high school senior, because of the stress of the Chinese Gaokao; I'm sure its the hardest and stressful thing in my whole life;
I didn't learn any subject well; the best subject that I paid enormous time on it, only got 4 out of 10, which disappointed me so much;
three years passed and nothing gets well... everything just sucks, so I quit;
//我理解的压力
The stress I understand right now which it's a thing that makes u as fast as possible to finish a thing; which can be Double-edged sword, the good side; we can finish a project faster, like to finish a speech draft or build a software; //ex1
the bad side which can be really bad;
like stress from the study, that makes us invest our all time on it; without any interesting life; //ex2
in work because of stress to raising kids; we must stay at work, and be in the stressing working environment for a lifetime;
all those things make me feel lost; I don't believe anyone enjoying that kind of life, which it's the bad thing about life;
//我们怎么面对?
How are we facing stress? the founder, CEO of Apple, Steve Jobs once said: after we become adult people always losing the passion for changing the unchangeable world; which inspired me so much; I think people should have the faithful heart to facing the unchangeable, stressing society;
we know it's stressing, but I believe I'm not doing it like a Zombie!!!
because this word I enjoy using the philosophy to think the things and the meaning of things around me; I believe it gonna achieve me;
//辍学的英语学习
Let me share some experiences with you.I know I’m not old enough to tell stories. But these stories really meant to me.
After I dropped out of school, I facing the stressing of my family, they always give me the opinion that no making any sense, and they extremely not respected my choice to life;
I didn't think much, I was craving to improve my English, but no one gonna tells u, do it if u wanna achieve it; they just keep telling u how hard the life was, and how pity they are while they are the kid, and the school life etc;
//面对又会怎么样then how
//我面对后获得了什么? what
so basically I was facing a lot of things, like the gaokao, family, future stuff...
But I didn't give up on life, I stick with it; after i dropped out, in the winter I got up 6 am every day, do exercise for an hour, then I start to learn English, remember words, between forget and forget, so I have to keep review the things I learned every day, after the 5hours at morning, the afternoon it's also the same thing... it was boring process, but I didn't give up, after the three months of English study, I got confidence about my English,;
while I was traveling in Beijing, I made a lot of foreign friends, they are from America, Russian, Finland, Uzbekistan, South Africa, and India;
because of facing the stress, I got a lot of different experience than others I think it's the most valuable thing in my life;
so sometimes u have to follow your heart, overcome stress in everywhere! if u want, don't scare to lose;
//延伸到大学里的压力? more?
But facing stress sometimes would be bad! //大学精力
while I'm learning English, I found that Chinese really need a beautiful website, the website I saw in Chinese web it's sucks, so I decided to go to school and learn software tech;( thank my family for support me)
While the first day I got to school, I started to spend more than 10 hours every day to study, to obtain knowledge, which helps me to grow as a software engineer;
But you know it's not that simple, we have a lot class everyday in school, so basiclly all of my time just on them;
But because of the stress, I got lost a lot of my passion, like I don't even study follow my heart, I didn't enjoy it at all, I just forcing myself; as time goes by, my passion goes away, and My health was getting worse and worse; so basically I got everything wrong with my life, I started to get depression, I was fighting with it for a few months...
so don't let stress, makes u like a mess
现在没有压力? 又怎么样了? 课程数据结构, 前端方面, 网站 later on?
but the other side; what would happen if u don't have stress;
like months ago I'm was thinking
like I'm young... I don't have to be that much hurry, isn't it?
So...
I was find out that my study processes was getting more and slower, I can't finish a single project, and don't wanna invest my time to study it that much anymore...
without stress, my life just started to looks really Inefficient;
so there I wanna tell u it's, don't really stop, go to new place, touch new things, know the better world, or u just stop...
so this is why I'm started to learn more things, instead of only in software; I started my journey to play basketball, and Linux system which it's open source computer system created by Linus;
//进入放弃的话题, 和困难的话题
Come to the topic of difficulty, would the give up be the right choice;
I wanna share with u some of my stories;
I was told u the difficulty to became a English speaker;//想成为前端工程师的困难
But become a software engineer it's a more difficult thing;
After two years of study, I didn't really come out any perfect project;
There it's the difficulty I have;
- it needs tons of time to focus on one thing;
- the deeply understand for that knowledge in programming;
- it's the hardest thing, which it's creativity;
I have to tell u , the truth, I don't have any of them, but I'm really hardly working on them, I believe I would achieve them, even though I was having so difficult time because of that; But I think there have so many beautiful things, and valuable experience while I down it;
But sometimes give up to difficulty it's right, cause in most of the difficult situation, we don't have the right method to learn, or finish one thing; I think maybe it's not the right time for u;
I personly think the obstacles for me to become a software engineer, is I don't have the experience to overcome the things around the difficulty,
I invested time to finish", instead of doing every software project well and perfectly;
//结尾
I'm sure everyone probably had some same experience with me, I wanna tell u, and myself, we gonna do it well! just smash it with your passion!
Thank you !
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