一个人成熟的8大印记

EIGHT SIGNS TELLING THAT YOU ARE CHILDISH NO MORE

一个人成熟的8大印记

1 You will take something peacefully even if it is comment against you

Nothing can get to you if you don't allow it to. You are good at using silence to silent all the negative sounds, making your inner voice clear enough to be heard. You are the believer of yourself but it doesn't make you aggressive or arrogant. You just keep being yourself in a friendly peaceful way.

2 You only make adjustment based on your own judgment

You may take advice based on your consideration instead of following every ideas without giving it a second thought. Something good or helpful given will be better applicable if you creatively transform it into something suitable to your own condition by personal digestion.

3 You take silence as the reply when negative feelings get to you

You are good at cooling things down instead of heating them up. Compared with showing your anger then feeling regretful that you haven't dealt with it in a rational way, you prefer remaining silent from the very beginning to let things sink in.

4 You ask a feedback from yourself instead of anyone else

You respect your own feelings and emotions, ideas and decisions, requests and desires. You get to know more about what's going on within you, why you behave this way, how you would like to do to make things better. Everyone else's comments pass you by if you don't know what's the right thing to follow yourself.

5 You know that not every effort may have an answer, but there is no result without an effort

It feels good when things pay off. But don't depend on a good result to take your action, since nothing's guaranteed until all the cards are on the table. Do something, play your part well enough, then let the fate take care of itself.

6 You practice something to make it part of your life instead of taking a mere collection

I bet you have a lot of resources stored in all kinds of apps, online platforms and websites which you keep it safe after you click liked or favored but seldom come back for a second glance. But now you realize that the most effective way to have something is to figure out every chance to put it into practice, no matter it is the training course for yoga or the tips for making delicious pie, etc. Things applicable are valuable, while wasted when deserted.

7 You will take the decline of your request a deny of you no more

Not every message you send may have a reply nor every demand from you gets a response. Do not take nonreaction or indifference as others' decline against you personally. No connection between your values and yes or no of others.

8 You do something out of reason instead of emotion

Be the knight taming the emotion wild as horse, so you won't waste a second wondering how to justify your inappropriate manners later on. Make your behavior reasonable which you could take responsibility of.